All of us had dropped a ton of money on this girl and felt like we were totally being used

I truly believe that girls are bigger players than guys could ever hope to be. It was the beginning of my 4th year of school and I met this awesome girl, she was Greek and so was I. Sadly at Ferris State, if you're Greek, everyone knows all of your business. It’s kinda like high school only with a lot more drinking.

Anyway, I met Tawnya at a Friday night party and we talked for a while. Near the end of the night I got her number and took her out to dinner the following Monday. She suggested a restaurant two towns over—that was kind of weird but I figured since she was hot, what the hell.

It was seriously the best date I have ever been on. Tawnya was hot funny and smart, I thought I was in Heaven. We hung out three times that week and I never got shit from her, not even a kiss, but she was cool that I didn't care, much. The girl was cool as hell and could really party.

One night a few weeks later, I went to a party way out of town, and who did I see but sweet little Tawnya, with her boyfriend. She actually pulled it off pretty well all things considered and told me later they had just hung out a few times, but weren't together.

She called me the next day and invited me over to watch a movie at her apartment. I went over there and finally after a few weeks of dating, got a kiss from her. Not much but it was better than what I had been getting. The next time I saw her was my frat brother’s apartment. Who was she there with? her boyfriend? No-—a third guy.

I later found out that she had been with him for nearly a year but still hadn't slept with him. I figured she had to be fucked up to be seriously dating three guys and not sleeping with any of them. But I have to give her credit for being able to keep all of us hidden from one another.

That semester we got a pledge from Tawnya’s home town. I causally mentioned her to him. And he told me that she had been going out with his older brother for nearly 3 YEARS, and went home every other weekend to see him!

Now I was pissed.

I got all three of us guys to school up at her apartment and see how she would cover this. She wasn’t home and one of her roommates, after a little prying, told me she was out to dinner with another guy. We all decided to wait. All of us had dropped a ton of money on this girl and felt like we were totally being used (not to mention that none of us were getting ANY from her). So we all waited for about 45 minutes, until sweet, innocent little Tawnya walked in with a guy from a fraternity that I knew on campus.

She looked worried that we had all caught on to her little game and smiled sweetly and promised that we were the only guys she was dating; that she was a virgin and that she was really sorry if she hurt any of us. I decided to take that opportunity to ask her about her boyfriend back home. That got her a little upset saying that she was "young" and blah blah blah "she was just having fun" and it's not like she was sleeping with all of us.

'That’s for sure,' I’m sure all of us thought to ourselves.

I don’t think I could count on two hands the number of guys whose hearts Tawnya broke at Ferris before she graduated last spring. What I do know is that I will never trust any girl the same way again, especially ones that make you take them 30 minutes away to go out to dinner.