Despite the vulgarity of her infidelity, I still went through with the wedding

After seeing Tawnya for about a year and a half, I proposed to her and we became engaged. We were engaged for about a year and I started to suspect she was cheating on me. I didn't have any proof but I just knew something was up. I knew I couldn't marry her if she was cheating on me so I asked my brother Curt to follow her around and take a few pictures of what he saw when she and I weren't together. After a couple of weeks of tailing her around town, he finally scored. He said the pictures were extremely bad and that I should cancel the wedding. I told him no. He thought I was crazy. He said okay, whatever you want to do bro. I said, “let's get her back.”

So, I stay with Tawnya pretending everything was great. She picked out wedding dresses, caterers, floral arrangements, churches... the whole nine yards.

On the day of the wedding, we say our vows and go thru the whole ceremony. At the reception, she and I are sitting at the head table with her folks, my folks, my brother, my best man, her maid of honor, her sister and the pastor.

Mind you, my brother and I had this all planned out from the day he took the damning photos.

My brother stands up and makes his toast. After he finished, I tap my glass and make my toast. But just before I finish, I say, "everyone, I want to thank each and everyone of you for coming out today. To show my appreciation to all of you, there are envelopes scotch-taped underneath of all of your chairs. If you would, pull them out and let's all take a look." Everyone starts looking for the envelopes, and I mean everyone: her folks, my folks, her family, my family, grandmas, grandpas, aunts, cousins... everyone!

They open up their envelopes to find bigger than Dallas, an 8x10 of her getting boned doggie style by my best man.

As everyone gasped, I grabbed the mike and said: The pic was taken three weeks ago... Goodnight! And I walked out. My brother starts laughing and clapping. You thought her family was going to kill him. I grabbed a bottle of champagne and jumped into the limo and took off.

Then, I took my brother to Hawaii for my honeymoon.

Also, I have the WHOLE ceremony videotaped.